Name what you're deciding
What you want, what you fear, what you're protecting.
Thinking harder keeps you stuck. Seeing clearer sets you free.
Selv-a uses short questions to separate fear, habit, and real priorities, so the tradeoff becomes visible.
Make the tradeoff explicit
Option A vs B, in everyday consequences, not theory.
Leave with conviction
One next move, plus what to watch for to confirm it fits.
A quiet space to think, built like a path.
Short prompts. Clear contrasts. A next step you can actually do.
People do not need more opinions. They need their own answer.
A few moments where fog became a decision.
AriannaDesign Lead
Private betaQuiet clarity
"I declined a role that looked perfect on paper. The way it framed my tradeoffs made it obvious."
JonasFounder
Private betaUncomfortable, honest
"I realized I was chasing approval, not desire. That was hard to see, and impossible to ignore."
MayaPeople Partner
Private betaCalm, direct
"I set a boundary I had avoided for months with my team. It gave me the wording and the nerve."
LuisConsultant
Private betaConcrete outcome
"I chose to move and made the plan in the same sitting. It turned anxiety into a next step."
AriannaDesign Lead
Private betaQuiet clarity
"I declined a role that looked perfect on paper. The way it framed my tradeoffs made it obvious."
JonasFounder
Private betaUncomfortable, honest
"I realized I was chasing approval, not desire. That was hard to see, and impossible to ignore."
MayaPeople Partner
Private betaCalm, direct
"I set a boundary I had avoided for months with my team. It gave me the wording and the nerve."
LuisConsultant
Private betaConcrete outcome
"I chose to move and made the plan in the same sitting. It turned anxiety into a next step."
Start where it hurts.
Pick a decision people postpone the most, or bring your own.
Bring your own
Start from your own decision.
About 2 minutes.Change jobs
Are you staying for stability, or staying for fear?
About 2 minutes.Move
Is it excitement, or escape dressed as excitement?
About 2 minutes.Say no
What are you trading away each time you say yes?
About 2 minutes.End a relationship
Is it love, habit, or the fear of being alone?
About 2 minutes.Bring your own
Start from your own decision.
About 2 minutes.Change jobs
Are you staying for stability, or staying for fear?
About 2 minutes.Take your clarity with you
Save it for when the fog comes back.
Keep your decision, the tradeoff you saw, and the next move you chose, in one place.
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